Hurricane Sandy Update: Cups full of coffee and hearts full of empathy
In the midst of the terrifying chaos brought on by Hurricane
Sandy in New Jersey and New York---property destruction, psychological trauma,
seemingly relentless hardship brought on by power outages, gas shortages and
death---the emergence of basic human kindness is the one thing that can be
counted on.
At the center of many of the acts of kindness has been the
offer of warmth, both in the form of refuge from the cold and a hot cup of
coffee. Over and over that offer is made---on facebook, via email, and in
person. Volunteers drive to stricken areas around the Rockaways, Staten Island
and the Jersey shore with large vats of hot coffee and hearts full of sympathy.
When coffee is offered person to person, the underlying
sincerity in that gesture belies the immensity of that act. What is being said
is the following: “Come into my home and share space and resources with us. Use
my water and our toilets. Shower and use clean towels. Sleep on our sheets, rest in
our beds and close the door for privacy and dignity. Use our power to stay warm,
charge your phones and read the newspaper.” And finally: “Drink our coffee. Use
our sweeteners and dairy and non-dairy add-ons. Find comfort even as I stretch
my boundaries a bit to share what I have with you.”
I am so amazed and grateful at how many of these offers were
directed our way, as our house in Montclair was without power for 8 days. At
the beginning, we turned to our candles, flashlights and fire logs—but the food
started to go and the small inconveniences---such as our cars being locked in
the electronic garage---mounted until that forced us to leave with our toddler
and 9-year-old in tow.
So we left for a generously offered apartment in Brooklyn
Heights. When we arrived, I found coffee. I immediately felt at home at
Starbucks on Montague, especially enjoying the communal feel of working and
drinking coffee at a long farmhouse-like table.
I enjoyed the dark cherry wood paneling, brick interior walls, brown
mugs and the various depictions of Brooklyn and its main memes—the view of the
skyline and the bridge. I also had a huge supply of Via with me that I made in
the mornings before I put the baby in her stroller and headed out.
While enjoying power after not having it for what turned out
to be a relatively short period of time---especially compared to some
others---I thought back to that first day without power. The first day, I went
to Starbucks here in Montclair. Knowing that it would be crowded, I brought my
own foldout chair---one of the chairs that we used this summer to witness
fireworks, and to see outdoor movies in Manhattan. I arrived and found a seat
with a group of people I didn’t know, and I found power to charge my computer
and phone. Everyone was nice and friendly, including the baristas, who spent
the entire day dealing with a line that was out the door. The warmth of the
coffee and sweetness of the pastries offered was a sheer joy to us. We have
been humbled and laid low by Sandy and now Athena. It’s been a tremendous
challenge---but the offer of coffee has been tremendously uplifting.
And by the way, have you heard about the “lox Sherpa” of
Russ & Daughters on Houston Street? Now that’s a hero. During the height of
the storm crisis, he commuted every day from Jackson Heights, helped get the
generator started to keep the refrigerator going, and moved all of the lox onto
ice and into crates. He also hauled food and water up 24 flights of steps to a
sick coworker. Previously, this 39-year-old was a professional Sherpa helping mountain
climbers summit Mt. Everest. You know what keeps him so strong, healthy and
clear? When asked about his preference, he admits to preferring coffee to tea,
saying, “In this city, you have to start your day with coffee.” Read more about
Mr. Sherpa here: http://www.nytimes.com/2012/11/04/nyregion/the-lox-sherpa-of-russ-daughters.html?_r=0
Comments
A cultural entity that one might consider a "replicator," such as fashion, for example. The evolution of behavior.
Coffee drinking, in a coffee house, such as a SBUX, perhaps?
It's Evolution, baby.
Admire me, admire my home
Admire my son, he's my clone
Yeah, yeah, yeah, yeah
This land is mine, this land is free
I'll do what I want but irresponsibly
It's evolution, baby
I'm a thief, I'm a liar
There's my church, I sing in the choir:
(hallelujah, hallelujah)
Admire me, admire my home
Admire my son, admire my clones
'Cause we know, appetite for a nightly feast
Those ignorant Indians got nothin' on me
Nothin', why?
Because... it's evolution, baby!
I am ahead, I am advanced
I am the first mammal to make plans, yeah
I crawled the earth, but now I'm higher
2010, watch it go to fire
It's evolution, baby
Do the evolution. (Pearl Jam-Do the Evolution).
It's an amazing site about fashion. What it is is,is is is, a site where a top fashion photographer goes around (mainly in Milan, New York, Paris and London) and takes shots of real people (mostly) wearing interesting clothes. Interesting clothes from a fashion perspective.
One of the most fascinating things about it is that the subjects aren't necessarily wearing expensive items, they're just put together well. The people he presents make bold, stylish choices, expressive choices.
It's cool. It's a meme. It's evolution, baby.
What defines a Star, rather than simply an actor or actress? It's not looks. It's not necessarily acting ability, although almost all Stars have that in Spades. Is it simply charisma, a pure likability, the power of a personality to appeal to a wide audience? Bogart had it, Barbara Stanwyck too, there are many, many others who are simply famous, some well remembered, but not really Stars, in my book. Maybe the definition of Star, is that people take the money out to see a movie because that person is in it.
I can tell you this; J. Lawrence didn't appear for the first 30 minutes of this movie, but when she did, you could feel the audience respond, somehow. The movie took off. Also, during the scenes with her co-star Bradley Cooper (who was also very good) you could hear a pin drop, in a very crowded theater. Not like during the first run of "The Blair Witch Project," when no one even breathed, but the crowd was with them, the crowd was interested.
Yeah, so, I like Sappy Romantic Comedies, wanta make somethin' outta it?